20 FIRST DATE QUESTIONS TO ASK

deas for First Date Questions.

Select a few of these questions rather than attempt to ask them all on the same first date!

1. What sort of vacations do you like to take?

Why: Different vacation preferences or amounts of vacation time can be a major source of ongoing incompatibility. For example, if one person likes to take very long trips and the other person has a more standard two weeks vacation time

.2. How was your day?

Why: This question helps establish if your date has a positive or negative attitude? If asking this question leads to five solid minutes of them complaining you'll know the person sees the glass as half empty.

Also, if anything out of the ordinary has happened that might be affecting your date’s mood, it’s good to factor this in.

3. Tell me about your friends?

Why: When you enter a relationship with someone you’re also entering a relationship with their friends. Also, it’s nice to give your date an opportunity to answer a question that isn't directly about them.

4. Are you a dog person, a cat person, or neither?

Why: If one of you doesn't like pets and the other has 3 dogs, that's likely to be a problem.

5. What do you like to do in your free time? 

Why: Helps you find out the person's preferences and also helps you establish if the person has any free time or if they're a workaholic

.6. Is there anything you're really passionate about?Why: Does the person have strong feelings or are they more easygoing and with milder feelings.

7. Do you like your job?

Why: Is the person about to make any major life changes e.g., leave their $200K/year job to go back to school? What's their attitude to their work? Do they see it as a job, a vocation, or are they primarily motivated by climbing the career ladder?  

8. Are you a morning or a night person?Why: This is primarily relevant if you're either an extreme night or an extreme morning person.9. Would you like a bite of my dish?

Why: This question shows you’re open to sharing. On a first date go for a friendly tone rather than an intimate tone when asking this question.

10. Is it too noisy in here for you?

Why: This shows you're considerate of other people's comfort. Don’t be afraid to change plans if you arrive at a restaurant and find it’s too noisy for a good conversation.

11. Who do you live with?Why: If they still live with their Mom or they live with 10 roommates, this tells you something about how they like to live

.12. Are you close to your family? Or, tell me who's in your family?

Why: Are they very involved with their family of origin? Is this something that appeals to you or not? Are their family intrusive? 

Do they have a lot of family conflict?

13. Is there anything you don't eat? 

Why: Helps you plan future dates but also gives you an opportunity to choose not to pursue dating someone who has very incompatible food preferences from you.

14. Do you smoke / drink / do drugs?

Why: You likely have a preference one way or the other.

15. Do you collect anything?

Why: Do they spend a lot of money or time collecting something?

16. How do you feel about.... [insert the thing you're really passionate about]?

Why: Whatever you're really passionate about, do they respect it? For example, gaming.17. Have you seen any good movies or TV shows lately?

Why: This will tell you about your date’s preferences and also if they're someone who tends to reflect on experiences and can talk about their thoughts. This might not be important to you, but it might be.18. Have you been to any good restaurants recently?

Why: Tells you something about whether they seek out new experiences.

19. What are your thoughts about the upcoming election (any upcoming election)?

Why: The main point here is not to jump to assumptions about your date's politics. If you jump to an assumption that they have the same politics as you, they might feel too awkward to say that their politics are different.20. Are you dating anyone else at the moment?

Why: If your date is exploring a relationship with someone else you might want to push pause at the end of your first date but offer them the opportunity to get back in touch with you if the other relationship doesn’t work out. This isn’t about you being sloppy seconds. Especially in the age of internet dating, people sometimes meet multiple people they’re interested in around the same time

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50 SIGNS HE IS INTERESTED IN YOU

1. He leans towards you whenever you are sitting close to one another.
2. He rarely turns his back on you.
3. He smiles a lot and looks at you keenly.
4. He will maintain eye contact with you.
5. He will find an excuse to touch you whenever he has the chance.
6. He might try to make you jealous by flirting with other girls who are just friends to him.
7. He will often show interest in things you like or that matter to you. This is an attempt for him to be closer to you.
8. If he looks away quickly when you notice he is watching you, then there is a high likelihood that he likes you.
9. He will be nervous around you — this is especially true if you haven’t known one another for long.
10. He will have a seemingly never-ending smile on his face whenever you are around him.
11. He will mimic, imitate, or try to do whatever you happen to do in the way you do it.
12. He might tease you a lot, and this can especially be a massive sign he likes you when he doesn’t tease other girls around him
13. He may playfully pinch your body, especially hands and cheeks.
14. He is the conversation starter. He poses questions and is interested in talking to you.
15. He compliments and congratulates you, even when there is nothing big you have achieved to warrant praise from him.
16. He compliments your make-up, clothing, or fragrance. This is a way of indirectly telling you 'I like you'.
17. He may seem jealous when you are with other guys.
18. He develops a strong interest in your social media conversations and comments. Suddenly he is commenting or liking your Facebook status updates or retweeting the tweets you have made.
19. He may shower you with gifts.
20. He prefers to be near you, even when he is supposed to be busy with work or attending to another important task.
21. You receive lots of phone calls from him. He asks how you are doing and what you are up to. Does he call you often when he has nothing important to tell you? That's a sign.
22. He will start acting nicer and more generous when you are around him.
23. If he willingly says yes to everything you ask him to accomplish or do, he likes you. He most likely doesn't want to disappoint you by saying no.
24. He does not want anyone to offend or insult you in his presence. He will defend you and make sure that you are safe and sound.
25. He always wants to hang out with you and wants to introduce you to his friends
26. He is less likely to allow you return back something you have borrowed from him before. He may tell you there is no need to return it and encourage you to keep it for yourself
27. He may utter words to you like sweetie, honey, baby, and the likes.
28. Does he say (or behave) like he misses you when you away from one another for some time? He likes you.
29. He will do things to make you laugh and stay positive.
30. He will comfort you when you are having hard times. He is the first one to say sorry when something unfortunate happens to you.
31. He abandons whatever he is doing in order to find time to be with you and talk to you.
32. When you are not around, he will be desperate to ask your friends for clues about where you are.
33. He may dress to get your attention and impress you.
34. Body language signs of attraction is a sure way of telling if a guy likes you or not. Observe his body language to tell if he likes you.
35. He will stare at you from top to bottom. If you see him running his eyes from top to toe, he has an interest in you.
36. He will sit next to you, lean over you, or hover close by every chance he gets.
37. He will ask lots of questions. He wants to know more about you and your 
38. opinions on varying topics etc.
39. He wants to be seen with you. He doesn’t feel ashamed of the two of you being seen walking together, having a conversation, or having a great time. All that matters to him is you.
40. He may tell you that you are beautiful and sexy, even you don't feel it.
41. He is your best companion when you are sick or not feeling well. You are surprised he is visiting you and spending countless number of hours beside you.
42. He will offer you unnecessary help to impress and keep you happy. In the workplace, he may undertake some of your tasks.
43. He does things aimed at proving to you that he is the most suitable man that you will ever find in your lifetime
44. He may offer you financial favors
45. He doesn’t mind spending big on you and may spend his last dollar in order to impress you.
46. He will want to be there for important events you may be having like graduating from college or celebrating a birthday.
47. He will offer you support. This includes grabbing you by the hand to help you cross a busy highway.
48. He is generous with many nice and kind words.
49. He will treat you better than he treats any other girl.
50. When he starts sharing his personal secrets, you know he's definitely falling in love!